In need of Godly wisdom

The question given to us last night at dinner: What do you do for a child who is sponsored who is 22 years old and has sickle cell?  He is in S3 and probably misses a lot of school due to his illness that is not curable.   COG helps him out with his medical needs right now because he is a student.  The only thing I can think about it, is what would I do if he was my child?  Everyone of these kids that God puts in our path here are loved by Him so much more than we could ever love them.  They are all made in His image.  So what is God requiring of us?  Please pray for wisdom for the COG staff.